If you could look back at your life and remember all the hard times that you’ve been through, yet here you are, a survivor of all those bad moments and who eventually even became stronger. Only to realize that life will still bring you more of those bad moments that look like a flashback. You find yourself in a situation that you probably had to deal with in the past. A lot of crying, sleepless nights, broken hearts and dreams.
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You wonder whether you’re the only person who is going through this, all the sadness, hopelessness and weakness. The world start to seem a negative pressure on you, without any escape. When we go through these moments, we feel excluded from others and the world. No one seems to understand our moments or to know how we feel at those moments. Perhaps because whenever we have tried to tell people the way we felt, they would ignore us or tell us to be “strong because it will pass”.
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But at that specific time, you don’t know how to be “strong” or to make it “pass”. You feel weak, hopeless and all you want is an explanation. To know the reason why all bad things happen to you. What life has taught me and you so far, is that sometimes it could be more or less often, things happen to remind us of what life is about. Life doesn’t want us to feel good all the time, it let us taste the good happy moments but also taste the bad moments of sorrow.
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Life is just a collection of moments, a chain where one moment leads to another and even this doesn’t last forever. Moments come and go, this is why life has a limit, because it want us to feel all kind of moments, we are made to feel joy but also sadness, success but also failure. It is hard sometimes to understand why bad things happen but one thing is for sure, bad moments don’t last forever, there will always be good moments afterwards.
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Life is an alternation between the bad and the good . If anyone could ever give you the best advice about life, is to hold on to yourself and to those special people in your life. Don’t get over attached to whatever is material. Things that we have created only for the pleasure to satisfy ourselves and to satisfy our psychological egoism. Hold on thigh to the people who are with you now and wherever you go, spread goodness only then you will be happy and strong.
Thank you for reading.
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